Old Paradigm
The self-defense community has evolved a bunch even in the few years I‘ve been involved in it exclusively. Now, it‘s …
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Missing the Forest for the Trees…
Most of us have a pre-conceived notion of what an abusive relationship looks like. I know I did: the drunken …
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The Big Three
Looking back, I can see all the things I wish I had done differently—better. The things that probably did more harm than good, and I have to remind myself that I was doing my best with the tools I had at the time. It’s not always an easy pill to swallow. There’s no instruction book.
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The Art of Boundaries
Recently, someone taking my Creating Enforceable Boundaries course sent me the following question. Rather than just respond to them individually, …
Read MoreLearning Physical Skills Online – Part 2
In part one I looked at the problems with learning physical skills, and in particular self-defense skills, online. I also …
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